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ATTACHMENTS - My Take

ATTACHMENTS ! The word somewhere sound a bit heavy and the immidiate  reaction  is to get rid of them .Truely , the moment we get attached , a new journey begins ! The journey to dettachment ! Every relationship goes through loneliness, attachment and then the need to be free . Wonder what happens when you dont have attachment ? Ever met people who are not attached ? I get two kinds of clients - not attached and lonely  & attached and suffocating . The happily attached and detached dont come to me for counseling .But would be great to know that phase . Actually there was this intresting phase when you were attached to fun , games , excitement ! Even a roller coaster could make me happy and winning a chor police was exhilirating . Then the inevetable happened . I got attached to the friends who played with me and the game was lost . The focus shifeted so gradually that i never realized when one by one i lost intrest in all games and the attachments were the ...