DIFFICULT & ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS
Difficult &Abusive Relationships? What happens when we are surrounded by difficult people around us .People who do not value your inputs and efforts to make their life comfortable. You have tried your level best to make them acknowledge your efforts but of no avail. You are bound to them either by loyalty or helpless circumstances. Doesn’t this sound like many of us in relationships ? So how do you deal with this ? First of all it is worth exploring if they are doing this only to you or it is generalized pattern of emotional abuse they follow .In that case you do not take them seriously and lower your expectations from them .Some people just cannot offer emotional support and reassurance as a part of their internal patterns . So the question is where do I go for emotional gratification ? The wisdom here is to understand that one can give only what they have and if emotional security is not a part of their systems ,they cannot and will not give it to you...