Life -Karmic or Chosen

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                                                   Reflections - Kirti Bakshi                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Our connection to self approval largely depends on our success with money and relationships . It takes a lot to create a happy moment in life .                                                                                                                                                                                                              We are happy when there is no work stress ,when all around me are happy and when my bank statements look happy . So then, how may happy moments we have in life ? The lucky ones can count on finger tips .                                                                                            
JUST PAUSE AND THINK
 Who was i before this entanglement .When did i give the control away .What did i trade my confidence for ? The answer is one word -FOR APPROVAL from some segment ,individual or social norm .                                                                                                                                                         The leading question is ,could i have done otherwise ? Could i have loved any one else ? Could i have different parents ? Could i have different children or for that matter, could i be blessed with different type of intelligence .Could i be born more free or more conforming ? The answer is a a big NO. Then what makes us so proud at some time and hopeless at other.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Looking at this it may sound a pessimistic thought trail of hopeless thinking but could you think other wise ? Well, the answer is YES !you could think otherwise about the existing  not to have the power to undo it, but accept it .                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Now starts the KARMA , to face the karmic . Strange loop that keeps us going . Living with an illusion of choices and learning to accept that the major areas of life had really no choice,no control ,so  no blame and no credit . Vow ! what a relief and pain . No ,it is not an escapist's thought ,it is a realist's thought .                                                                                                                                                   So then chill and relax and think different about the stationary aspects of life .The risk is you may not get approval ,you may not find many like you ,but go on any ways . WHAT I GET IS NOT MY FAULT AND DOING ,HOW I DEAL WITH IT IS A CHOICE ( shhhh---- limited again ) . LET GO AND BREATH FREE !    Love -Kirti Bakshi

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  1. Prakash Kathpal20 November 2018 at 18:37

    True mam
    Life is
    Very simple but we complicate ourself...

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