Is this really career counselling ? How open is India ?

Is this really Career Counselling?

The Four Stages  of Career Planning

                 Observations, Myths & Realities
                                  By- Kirti Bakshi
         (Career Counselor,Psychotherapist & Corporate Trainer )

During, My long innings in the field of counselling the Indian youth for Personality & Career, I have observed some very sadly prevailing and confused practices. I have traced lot of young students who loose a track of life due to lack of proper direction . I urge all involved in the process to treat youth as Individuals and not, a market to drive unfulfilled ambitions, fixations or commercial motives.

Do we really have neutral and holistic career counselling in India? How open is India?
A question that requires  serious attention, as many educational institutes have confused Career Counselling  and are using it as a marketing gimmick to draw more students to their Courses. e.g Engineering classes attract students by the offering a test to scan the interested students & It very surprising to see that, the test never produces a negative result . The end is already decided as almost everyone is found eligible .It’s surprising to see that, when we work with them in our clinical setup, they are found challenged in many core skills.

This practice has been misguiding the students to have a lopsided view of their potentials and there by embarking them on a journey which, is not truly their area of excellence. Their journeys however get complicated,when the need for grade point average starts to build up a pressure on them.
The institutes further misguide the anxious and cash stripped parents to point out  that their child is distracted but has the potential to do much better. The domestic scene in this family can be anyone's guess work. The picture is same in the case of law, design and medical entrance institutes.
As a result, the misguided youth is unable to understand and explain the difficulties that they are going through and feel terribly crushed under the competitive pressure. I have been handling students with acute exam stress, last moment breakdowns, midterm drop outs, escaping into unhealthy ways of coping and all this in the name of competition.
The major question is - Who creates this competition and deprives students from taking decisions based on their inherent potentials?
 
To demystify this confusion, A neutral and holistic career counselling becomes the need of the hour .The major challenge is the parent’s ignorance about vertical & horizontal development i.e. the changing potentials and diversified interests of the children.
A good Career Counsellor is tuned in to main aspects of guidance and focuses on the child's personality, tenacity, endurance and other intricate aspects of aptitude testing. The aim should be to create a three fold plan which, will provide a backup plan, gives a view of distance possibilities at national as well as International horizons. The three fold plan consists of Plan A ,Plan B, Plan C with the details of each one and focus on skill development for the same .
The many tools of testing in today’s market promise career planning but, are only assessment driven .They need to be handled by professionals who, have an open mind to research and have good knowledge of new and conventional careers as well as global scenarios of education. 
The informal assessment of personality and rapidly changing neurological patterns of development along with formal assessment makes up an all  inclusive model of career counselling. Today, we have professionals who are skilled in testing and then, there are others who know careers and yet there are others who are only product counselors.

One needs to look out for the following aspects, while choosing a Career Counselor:
  • The combination of Formal &Informal Assessment
  • Experience combined with knowledge of latest careers
  • Experience of working with young age groups
  • Horizontal &Vertical Development stages
  • Openness to research and create new possibilities
  • Use of Relevant Tools

For Holistic Career Guidance & Aptitude Testing

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Kirti Bakshi – 9757399058
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Comments

  1. Wonderfully put across. Most youth, even today, submit to pursuing dreams that have been imbibed into them through their conditioning. They are either ignorant about their natural strengths or fail to identify a career they would rejoice and would love to be a part of. Helping youth by directing them into a career they can make a difference in is not just career counselling, its nation building. Thank you Kirti ma’am. So proud that you have been my teacher; and more importantly, a nation builder.

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  2. Thanks Surya ! That makes it two of us towards nation building !

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  3. Thanks Surya ! That makes it two of us towards nation building !

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