Kirti Bakshi - Observations & Inspirations

Difficult &Abusive Relationships? What happens when we are surrounded by difficult people around us .People who do not value your inputs and efforts to make their life comfortable. You have tried your level best to make them acknowledge your efforts but of no avail. You are bound to them either by loyalty or helpless circumstances. Doesn’t this sound like many of us in relationships ? So how do you deal with this ?   First of all it is worth exploring if they are doing this only to you or it is generalized pattern of emotional abuse they follow .In that case you do not take them seriously and lower your expectations from them .Some people just cannot offer emotional support and reassurance as a part of their internal patterns . So the question is where do I go for emotional gratification ? The wisdom here is to understand that one can give only what they have and if emotional security is not a part of their systems ,they cannot and will not give it to you...

Play Therapy  WORKSHOP FOR TEACHERS,PARENTS AND COUNSELORS  By -the Counseling Company ABOUT THE COURSE Welcome to our  Series of  Skill Building Workshops. The workshops are meant for Counselors ,Therapists Parents, and Teachers and all those who work with children .  Play is natural means of expression for children . They express themselves best through play  Therefore it is a very effective tool in creating behavior transformations and knowing their sub conscious  . A play therapist addresses issues like  Defiance  Anger  Anxiety  Disruption  Social Adjustments  Emotional Expressions  Behavior & Conduct  Environmental Impact  Electronic Addiction  What is Play Therapy? Play therapy builds on the natural way that children learn through a trained play therapist. Play therapists can assess and understand children’s play whil...

Basic Psychology Workshop Basic Psychology knowledge  -A need for every individual dealing with transformation through any modality .Be it a team leader or Manager ,Parent teacher or Therapist the working knowledge of psychology is imperative as it allows for a deeper understanding and refined approach . In this workshop we aim to cover concepts for a laymen in a systematic manner thereby equipping them with the jargon often used by clinicians and various articles on the subject .this not only helps us to understand people better but also identify early onset of challenges and take corrective action before it is too late . The course aims to refine the understanding of basic key concepts in Psychology to non-psychology professionals who work in the field of Mental Health. The participants get increased awareness of Psychological Abnormalities and the techniques that can be used to deal with each one them. The course methodology includes developing certain key skills in...

Parenting Rude Kids -Amazing Insights It hurts somewhere so deep that even tears don't show up . I don't want anyone to know that my child is such a monster . I start questioning my parenting style . Did i go wrong somewhere ?  The psychologist tell me that my child has learnt it from me .I am in denial that i actually have a reckless monster that i have raised with all my love and affection .  How ? why ? what went wrong ?  My head spins all the time trying to answer this question. So my search begins -I go to astrologers who tell me that the stars are bad and the child is going through a bad time . The homeopath gives constitutional remedy .My denial gets even more support and i say it is not the child , it is the stars . More conviction is acquired when the family doctor says it is vitamin D3 and B12 that can cause mood swings in teens in addition to puberty pressure and hormonal changes .  The tangential thinking also scans genetics , family his...

Parenting Rude Kids -Amazing Insights It hurts somewhere so deep that even tears don't show up . I don't want anyone to know that my child is such a monster . I start questioning my parenting style . Did i go wrong somewhere ?  The psychologist tell me that my child has learnt it from me .I am in denial that i actually have a reckless monster that i have raised with all my love and affection .  How ? why ? what went wrong ?  My head spins all the time trying to answer this question. So my search begins -I go to astrologers who tell me that the stars are bad and the child is going through a bad time . The homeopath gives constitutional remedy .My denial gets even more support and i say it is not the child , it is the stars . More conviction is acquired when the family doctor says it is vitamin D3 and B12 that can cause mood swings in teens in addition to puberty pressure and hormonal changes .  The tangential thinking also scans genetics , family his...